Sunday 15 February 2015

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY

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It's that time of the year again when lovers go mushy, exchange roses/gifts/kisses ;) and make their feelings known. It's heartwarming to see, but sometimes becomes embarassing to see, especially the way some kids take PDA to levels once unimaginable (most of us have been there some time, that's why it is embarassing).

For us ladies, it's a nice feeling to be made to feel special, at least once a year. Some of us don't even enjoy this small privilige, especially married ladies, because once we get married, office-related work tends to get a better share of our spouses' attention. Nevertheless, even a simple gesture like a rose or dinner outside (let us stay out of the kitchen at least once a year guys) counts.

Here's wishing everyone out there a very Happy Valentine's Day.

Thursday 5 February 2015

MY MOM - MY BEST FRIEND

There is a saying - 'A Mother is someone who can take the place of all others, but who's place no one else can take'. How true this saying is. This saying is particularly apt for my mother.

My mother is the reason I exist today. I have an elder sister. Both of us lost our father when we had barely graduated out of school. Although he had lost his job a few years before his death, due to the company winding up, he had just begun to get back on his feet to support the family by starting his own business, when tragedy struck. The entire responsibility of the household, the education and raising of two young girls suddenly fell on my mother's shoulders. She had to start life afresh. Of course, she had amazing support from family, - both my dad's as well as her own - but it isn't easy for anyone, let alone a woman, to bring up two kids all alone. She did a great job, and that too while being a friend to both of us. We were more like three sisters, rather than a mother and two daughters.

Today, both daughters are well-settled. Both are married, and I have a young son. Amazingly, she hasn't retired and sat back yet. She still helps us around. She's our crisis-lady, always ready to help us with chores, important tasks,and even with child-raising. Sometimes I feel my son loves her more than me, but I'm not complaining.

It wouldn't be wrong for me to call her a Super-Woman, because she really is one.

I feel really blessed.

I wish I could be half like her to my son. Or maybe I shouldn't try, because I can never match up to that level.